Mamas, we totally get it — between diapers, sleepless nights, and the unmistakable smell of milk, finding the spark in the bedroom might seem impossible. Sparks and sizzle? What are you talking about? But hey, Valentine’s Day is the perfect excuse to reignite that connection with your partner! You deserve to feel tingly, even if the only “romantic” moment is sneaking in a quick peck on the cheek before the next diaper change. Time to start exploring your intimate fantasies and act on the lingerie adverts that appear in your feed as you’re scrolling during milk-feeds. Let’s rediscover the magic (milk-scented and all)!
Explore Intimacy Products
Let’s face it – being intimate might is the last thing on your mind! Sometimes, just a little help might do the trick to help you get in the mood with your partner after having a slew of sleepless nights. Intimacy products range from lubricants and oils, to massagers and soaks. The ultimate “Pleasure Pack” from Ultimate Intimacy is specifically designed just for you, with specific products to help you enjoy sexual intimacy to the fullest! Explore the full range of products here. You can also check out the range of sensual toys available at Motherswork.
Wear Lingerie
Oh we all know about sexy attire and while we might not have invested in any (or many!), never underestimate the power of lingerie. Just donning a foxy lingerie set will get both you and your partner in the mood.
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Attend A Couple’s Workshop
Trying a new activity is always fun together as a couple, plus it sets the scene for a night of romance too! There are many couple workshops to choose from and it ranges from crafting your very own cheeseboard, musical instrument, or even making your own mead! Check out Seek Sophie’s list of creative date ideas that are not only unique but also perfect for spending this Valentine’s Day with your partner.
More Couple Workshop Ideas:
- Fat Anvil Studios – Ring Making Workshop
- Crafune – Craft Leather Goods
- Scentopia – Perfume Workshop
Invest In Luxe Silk Products
Nothing says sexy better than sheer luxe silk pillowcases and slip dresses. The cool sensation the minute you rest your head on silk and don on the smooth fabric is pure heaven. What better way to get into the mood with your man! SOVA’s silk pillowcases are made with 100% pure 6A mulberry silk. Its latest innovation? The fabric is also infused with hyaluronic acid. Their slip dress is made with the same grade of mulberry silk. It also accentuates your waist and skims over your hips in a fit-and-flare cut that beautifully flatters your curves.
Plan A Surprise Date Night – Recreate Your First Date!
Wherever your first date night be, even it’s in another country, it’s worth every penny to recreate it to bring back the romance. Nothing says “I love you” better than going back in time (sans kids!) and reminiscing what it was like when it was just you two.
Go For A Sensual Couple’s Massage
A sensual massage is definitely a brilliant way to ignite the spark in your relationship once again! The best part, there are mobile spa companies that come right to your doorstep so you don’t even have to lose sight of your little one! The Outcall Spa offers a door-to-door couple’s massage package for a tranquil synchronised treatment. What a way to melt any stresses of parenthood away (even if just for an hour or two!) and bring back the moments when you enjoyed each other’s company.
Book A Weekend Getaway
If booking a trip overseas is not possible for a quick romantic getaway, then how about a Valentine’s Day staycation package at one of our many hotels! Most of them offer dinner and drinks while some even have extra perks thrown in. The Timeless Memories room package at The Capitol Kempinski Hotel Singapore includes enhanced amenities such as a bottle of champagne, an in-room Afternoon Tea Set for two, in-room decorations, a box of exquisite chocolate bonbons by Singapore’s very own Chef Artist Janice Wong. There’s even daily delightful breakfast included!
More Valentine’s Day Hotel Deals:
- Carlton Hotel
- Four Seasons Hotel Singapore
- The Fullerton Hotel Singapore
- PARKROYAL COLLECTION Marina Bay Singapore
- Goodwood Park Hotel Singapore
Have A Bedroom Picnic
Picnic in the bedroom? You know what they say – the way to a woman’s heart is… But in all seriousness, if you’ve got baby duties and taking time off away from home is really tough, then setting up a little picnic in your bedroom while your little bub is napping might be the very thing you need to jazz up the intimacy scale with your partner.
Ready-to-eat Picnic Sets:
Have A Sensory Experience Together At Home
Sensory activities help you connect emotionally and physically in a new way. Try something that engages all the senses—like a wine and cheese tasting or a cooking class. What about creating a DIY Spa session at home? You can create a spa-like atmosphere by lighting a few scented candles, or use an essential oil diffuser, as aromatherapy scents are a great way to brighten your mood and relax. Then, put on your favourite playlist, create a relaxing atmosphere, and prepare a good cup of tea or whatever beverage you like. You can even make a DIY face mask together with your partner too!
Try An Intimacy App
There’s pretty much an app for everything and yes, there are apps designed to help couples connect on a deeper level! These can be through guided intimacy exercises, fun challenges, or playful prompts. It’s a low-pressure way to reconnect. One such app is Ultimate Intimacy. The content of the app includes games, conversation starters, expert videos and podcasts and more! More love app for couples here!
Have A Movie Night!
Put on your favourite movie or better yet, choose a raunchy one to get both you and your partner in the mood for love! Grab some popcorn, get cosy and let the show begin! Click here for more movie ideas!
With all these sensual ideas, bringing the sexy back into the bedroom and reigniting that spark doesn’t have to be so daunting. This Valentine’s Day, try one, if not more of these and let the sparks fly!
